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		<title>So Special: Music Video</title>
		<link>http://intellichick.com/index.php/2009/07/23/so-special-music-video/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 00:01:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all my zaniness, I forgot to post the music video I made for &#8220;So Special&#8221; &#8211; didn&#8217;t make any money for Equality California, but I still believe in the<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://intellichick.com/index.php/2009/07/23/so-special-music-video/' addthis:title='So Special: Music Video '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_button_google_plusone" g:plusone:size="medium"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In all my zaniness, I forgot to post the music video I made for &#8220;So Special&#8221; &#8211; <a href="http://intellichick.com/index.php/2009/06/04/updated-buy-cctrans-song-so-special-proceeds-for-marriage-equality/">didn&#8217;t make any money for Equality California</a>, but I still believe in the cause.</p>
<p>The video features photos from the Anti-Prop 8 Protest in Silver Lake I attended after its passing.</p>
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		<title>Buy &#8220;So Special&#8221;: Proceeds to go to Equality California</title>
		<link>http://intellichick.com/index.php/2009/05/30/buy-so-special-proceeds-to-go-to-equality-california/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2009 21:45:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[UPDATED: I have changed the location where you can purchase the song.  Please refer to the updated blog post on this! I have just released my &#8220;So Special&#8221; song on<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://intellichick.com/index.php/2009/05/30/buy-so-special-proceeds-to-go-to-equality-california/' addthis:title='Buy &#8220;So Special&#8221;: Proceeds to go to Equality California '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_button_google_plusone" g:plusone:size="medium"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_250" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 160px"><img class="size-full wp-image-250" title="So Special" src="http://intellichick.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/sospecial.jpg" alt="Buy &quot;So Special&quot; - All Proceeds to go to Equality California" width="150" height="150" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Buy &quot;So Special&quot; - All Proceeds to go to Equality California</p></div>
<p><strong>UPDATED: <a href="http://intellichick.com/index.php/2009/06/04/updated-buy-cctrans-song-so-special-proceeds-for-marriage-equality/" target="_self">I have changed the location where you can purchase the song.  Please refer to the updated blog post on this</a>!</strong></p>
<p>I have just released my &#8220;So Special&#8221; song on SnoCap. Because the song is about my take on marriage equality, I have decided that anything I make from it will go to Equality California (<a href="http://www.eqca.org">http://www.eqca.org</a>) and the fight for marriage equality. Whether or not you like the song, it&#8217;s only 99-cents! So please help out this great cause by purchasing the song!  You can catch the full-version of my song on my <a href="http://www.myspace.com/ukechick">myspace</a>, or just purchase below.</p>
<p>Lyrics Below:</p>
<p><strong>So Special (cc.tran)</strong><br />
<em><br />
You can wrap your arms around me<br />
I can give you a kiss<br />
We can wear rings of gold<br />
And declare to the world this is it<br />
And anyone could say<br />
That we were right or wrong<br />
But we have the choice, we have the voice,<br />
to say we belong</em></p>
<p><em>Chorus<br />
But what makes us special?<br />
What makes us more real -<br />
Than other lovers in love<br />
Just the same?<br />
What makes us so special?<br />
That people could hold claim<br />
That others shouldn&#8217;t have it -<br />
What so many throw away</em></p>
<p><em>Love one another<br />
Words I abide<br />
Golden rule<br />
In a collective denied<br />
I know that you love me<br />
And that&#8217;s all I need<br />
But we have the choice, we have the voice,<br />
to say we belong</em></p>
<p><em>Chorus</em></p>
<p><em>Bridge<br />
What if the tables were all turned around?<br />
What if we&#8217;re the separate side of equal?<br />
Our choice, our voice, was someone else&#8217;s sound?</em></p>
<p><em>Chorus</em></p>
<p><em>But we have the choice, we have the voice,<br />
to say we belong</em></p>
<p>Thanks!</p>
<p>-cct</p>
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		<title>Progressive Regressive: Marriage Equality</title>
		<link>http://intellichick.com/index.php/2009/05/27/progressive-regressive-marriage-equality/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 22:23:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been feeling this odd back-and-forth pull in federal politics versus state level politics (in my particular case &#8211; California&#8217;s).  It seems as if &#8211; perhaps by chance &#8211; the<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://intellichick.com/index.php/2009/05/27/progressive-regressive-marriage-equality/' addthis:title='Progressive Regressive: Marriage Equality '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_button_google_plusone" g:plusone:size="medium"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_238" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-238" title="LA Times Cover" src="http://intellichick.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/latimescover-300x223.jpg" alt="Obama Victory and California's Gay Marriage Ban" width="300" height="223" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Obama Victory and California&#39;s Gay Marriage Ban</p></div>
<p>I&#8217;ve been feeling this odd back-and-forth pull in federal politics versus state level politics (in my particular case &#8211; California&#8217;s).  It seems as if &#8211; perhaps by chance &#8211; the progressive changes on the federal level is met by regressive issues on the state level.  Though this post is really only focused on one aspect of that &#8211; marriage equality.</p>
<p>On the same day that President Obama was elected as our first African-American president, Proposition 8 passed in California &#8211; defining that marriage is between a man and a woman, thereby putting the status of all the gay couples who had married in limbo.  Most recently, on the same day President Obama nominated Sonia Sotomayor as the potential first Hispanic Supreme Court judge, judges in California&#8217;s Supreme Court laid value to Prop 8 and its passing.</p>
<div id="attachment_239" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 238px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-239" title="sotomayorgayban" src="http://intellichick.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/sotomayorgayban-228x300.jpg" alt="LATimes Front Page: Sonia Sotomayor and Gay Marriage Ban Upheld" width="228" height="300" /><p class="wp-caption-text">LATimes Front Page: Sonia Sotomayor and Gay Marriage Ban Upheld</p></div>
<p>While I don&#8217;t honestly feel that Prop 8 will stay a fixture for long &#8211; the court did, after all, keep the marriages valid between gay couples pre-Proposition 8 &#8211; it still saddens me to see progress be ironically regressive.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been talking lately with friends about the state of relationships in America.  We exist in a world where liberating sexual freedoms are a norm &#8211; where multiple partners, heterosexual commitments without marriage, 48-hour marriages, and children out of wedlock are just a part of life.  Some people might not approve of them, but law doesn&#8217;t discriminate against them.  Perhaps this stems from the fear of conversation, of dialogue, that people don&#8217;t want to face.  It&#8217;s okay &#8211; so long as we don&#8217;t recognize it.</p>
<p>Regardless, while we seem to be at least trying to judge less and less by the color of a person&#8217;s skin on a national level and a person&#8217;s actions on a social level, the fact that two people love each other and want to make a commitment is denounced because they are the same gender doesn&#8217;t reveal us to be a progressive society.  It reveals that we are still biased in matters that affect human beings within our fold.</p>
<p>Proposition 8 is a judgment call against a group of people.  If we wanted to make it at an adequate reflection of what this state and this nation is supposed to founded upon, then we should take away the right of marriage from everyone.  Logically, I understand the court could only do what it could with the voting of Proposition 8 (let&#8217;s  face it, California Constitution is also a mess!), but I am disappointed in the California voters that let it pass in the first place.</p>
<p>In the call of right and wrong, we don&#8217;t often enough strip away the complicated details to bring it down to heart of the matter &#8211; genderless, colorless.</p>
<p>Julian Bond once stated, “The lessons of the civil rights movement of yesterday … is that sometimes the simplest of ordinary everyday acts, of taking a seat on a bus, of sitting down at a lunch counter, of applying for a marriage license, sometimes these can have extraordinary consequences, can change our world.&#8221;  I&#8217;m a firm believer in this, because the most important question in this debate should have nothing to do with gender or color.</p>
<p>The question comes down to: should <em>people </em>have the right to marry? Answer that question without any clauses, any qualifiers because that is the heart of equal rights &#8211; in the simplicity, the everyday.  My answer?  Yes.</p>
<p>-cct</p>
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		<title>Movements: Ideas</title>
		<link>http://intellichick.com/index.php/2009/05/13/movements-ideas/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2009 03:50:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As Melissa Etheridge wrote so eloquently on this very site about the Rick Warren inauguration fallout, &#8220;They don&#8217;t hate us, they fear change. Maybe in our anger, as we consider<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://intellichick.com/index.php/2009/05/13/movements-ideas/' addthis:title='Movements: Ideas '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_button_google_plusone" g:plusone:size="medium"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As Melissa Etheridge wrote so eloquently on this very site about the Rick Warren inauguration fallout, &#8220;They don&#8217;t hate us, they fear change. Maybe in our anger, as we consider marches and boycotts, perhaps we can consider stretching out our hands. Maybe instead of marching on his church, we can show up en masse and volunteer for one of the many organizations affiliated with his church that work for HIV/AIDS causes all around the world. Maybe if they get to know us, they wont fear us.&#8221;</p>
<p>via <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/keli-goff/how-the-crucifixion-of-mi_b_203069.html">Keli Goff: How the Crucifixion of Miss California Hurts the Marriage Equality Movement</a>.</p>
<p>Talk about ideas!  Anyone up for it?  Suggestions?!! <img src='http://intellichick.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>NY Times: Gay Couples Line Up for Marriage Licenses in Iowa</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 17:07:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[“I had always hoped for this, but I wasn’t sure that it would be in my lifetime or that it would be in Iowa,” said Mr. Phillips-Schrock, 58, of Urbandale.<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://intellichick.com/index.php/2009/04/27/ny-times-gay-couples-line-up-for-marriage-licenses-in-iowa/' addthis:title='NY Times: Gay Couples Line Up for Marriage Licenses in Iowa '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_button_google_plusone" g:plusone:size="medium"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“I had always hoped for this, but I wasn’t sure that it would be in my lifetime or that it would be in Iowa,” said Mr. Phillips-Schrock, 58, of Urbandale.</p>
<p>via <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/04/28/us/28marriage.html?src=twt&amp;twt=nytimes">Gay Couples Line Up for Marriage Licenses in Iowa &#8211; NYTimes.com</a>.</p>
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